How many times would have had to listen to nonsensical and vulgar chatter in the name of 'healthy discussion'? I've come to hate that phrase now. It's like anyone can get away with talking any crap under the sun in the name of 'healthy discussion'. I mean, who decides if a topic is 'healthy' or not? More often,the topics labelled 'healthy' are the most 'unhealthy' ones.
Most men try different ways to start talking about physical relationships and other such lewd subjects with women. And if women get squeamish, they say ,'oh come on now...don't be such a baby. We are only having a healthy discussion'.......grrr! Yes,it's true we are all grown-ups. But there are some topics that we still are not comfortable discussing about...especially with men. If men really want to discuss such things, they should do so with their wives or if they want serious knowledge, let them go talk to a doctor! x-( I don't understand why they have to centralise all discussions on this one subject. It's sick and disgusting!
Nobody seems to want to talk about travelling or movies or hobbies or books. Even if the girl starts a safe subject, the men deftly manoeuvres it so it finally ends up where he wanted it to end!
Scenario 1
Girl: What's your favourite place to travel?
Boy: Amsterdam :D
Girl: Wow! That's a nice choice....I would like to go to Vienna some day :)
Boy: Hey,did you know Amsterdam has one of the world's largest red-light areas? It's also known as F*****g Amsterdam.... LOL :D
Scenario 2
Girl: Did you see any good movies lately?
Boy: Oh yeah....I saw (some movie name) the other day...Blah-Blah-Blah has done an awesome job.man!there was this superb love-making scene in it....i was like WOW!
Girl: Uh...i heard the soundtrack is pretty catchy. Must download the songs sometime.
Boy: Yeah the songs are okay....but the scene I was talking to you about was just brilliant.
Yawn! How can y'all be such predictable morons? Do you even realise that when you people talk like this, all we feel like doing is just log-off. Guys,such talk are major turn-offs. Try wooing us with your intelligence...not with stuff like this! It's downright boring! And you are appearing very cheap.
Dear boys, there are so many fantastic subjects out there that you can talk about to girls. Please attempt to grow up. Maturity is still free of cost. Kindly understand that.
Sincerely.
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